What people say

If you’re unsure whether working with BeLoveCurious can help you, we think you’ll be inspired by these fantastic testimonials from our recent clients. Although the process isn’t always easy, you’ll get a real sense of the incredible, life-changing results these clients created in a very short space of time!

We found Helen at a time when our relationship had hit a very difficult and challenging time. The counselling was like finding the all important safety valve and an opportunity to air issues jointly in a space that felt both safe and focused on resolution.  Helen’s approach to couple therapy is both fair and compassionate providing you with a neutral space to work out how to take your relationship forward in a more positive direction.  Since having the therapy with Helen our appreciation of one another as individuals and what we each  bring to our relationship has deepened and we have learned new strategies for understanding one another as people.  Altogether a very worthwhile and positive experience. Engaged couple, Brighton

At my first session I was nearly in hysterics, panicking that I was not measuring up to any of life’s standards. My sex life, my love life and indeed my life was in tatters. The sessions with Helen not only improved the areas that I thought I needed help with, they went to my core. I walked out of the final session more whole than I have ever felt in my adult life. At last I was equipped with the self confidence to really blossom and grow. This was a life changing experience of which you read about in books!  Married female client, Richmond, Surrey

I am still feeling the huge impact from our session yesterday. I am using the power of my awakening like magic and slowly going through different areas of my life, tentatively touching each area with new clarity and letting it transform. The process is slow but really joyous.  Married female client, Richmond, Surrey

I started getting coaching from Helen at a very stuck stage of my relationship. I was confused because I was unhappy in what seemed like it should be a perfect relationship. She listened to all my cries without judgement after which she would ask simple questions that led me to an unshakeable clarity about the next steps for me. Without ever being told what I needed to do it was so clear that I had to find the courage to leave what was comfortable and familiar and follow my heart to find what will make me happy! Now I am single but more open to finding real love than I have ever been. Single female client, London

At the start I was quite sceptical, but I’m a complete advocate of ‘being love curious’ now. I’d go so far as to say it’s a good thing even if there is no problem as such. It’s a great opportunity to talk with someone who is completely neutral and non-judgmental and be challenged about the way you think about people and relationships. Now when a date isn’t going to plan I just imagine Helen’s voice in my ear and ask myself “what would she say?” Single male client, London

I only had five sessions, because that’s all it took for me to see how I was letting everyone in my life walk all over me. Helen asked me one question and it opened up the whole thing! I was respecting everyone else’s needs so much, I forgot about my own. I was like it with my ex-husband, my children, my boss and as soon as I saw that I decided I needed to put some boundaries in place and get my self-respect back so I can be sunny, smiley, shining Sarah again. Divorced female client, London

The overall process has been absolutely brilliant! All of a sudden everything clicks into place and when you can see the full circle, all the work we’ve been doing over these few weeks makes complete sense. I’ve had what I thought were good and bad sessions, and sometimes I’ve felt down and very reflective, but in retrospect I feel there’s never been a bad session because it’s all been extremely helpful. Married couple, Kent

My attitude to sex has completely changed. I used to think it was always going to be disastrous, but now I have hope that I can have a satisfying and enjoyable sex life. I’ve learned to relax a lot more and not be so bossy, so it’s a lot easier for someone to be spontaneous and more relaxed with me. Single female client, Surrey

I split up with my ex- a few months ago. She left me, and I would have done anything to get back with her. I thought that the problems in our relationship were all my fault and if I could just prove myself to her she would take me back. Talking to my coach helped me to see how I’d built my whole world around her and lost myself in the process. Through the coaching I went from thinking my ex- was perfect and I didn’t deserve her, to realising we didn’t want the same things in life at all and I really didn’t want her back. I moved on quite quickly after that and I’m now looking for a grown-up relationship with someone who does want the same things as me. Recently separated LGBT female client, London

I was so resigned about my marriage when I met Helen. I’d reached the point of thinking this was a last resort. I really believed “there’s no point to this, nothing will ever change; he will never change”. And then the penny dropped! I realised that if I wanted a different kind of relationship, it was largely down to me. I stopped expecting my partner to be a mind-reader, and tried telling him what I wanted instead. It was like a small miracle! We stopped arguing over the small stuff and things are just so much better than they’ve been for a long time. Long-term relationship, female client. London